Monday, May 28, 2018

On Memorial Day...

Today is Memorial Day - the day we recognize and thank those men and women who have fought to protect our nation and freedom, and have now since passed.

Someone  yesterday made mention that we should be careful about who and how we say "Happy Memorial Day"…because, for some, it is the day that they are reminded of a great loss. For the widows or widowers, mothers and fathers, siblings, children, and friends whose loved ones never returned from war, it isn't a happy one. For them, it isn't merely a day off work and a Monday when the mail isn't delivered…it isn't a great time to shop the Memorial Day sales or BBQ out with friends and family. It is a sobering thought, isn't it?

Honestly, I am unsure what word to use, replacing the "happy" that we place before most every holiday. Maybe have an honoring Memorial Day? Have a thankful Memorial Day? Have a respectful Memorial Day? I suppose any of those would work - being we are honoring those who have died; we are thankful for those who put their lives in crosshairs of triggers; we hold great respect for those who gave their lives so we could enjoy this day! "Freedom isn't free" sounds very cliche, but it is so true.

So, if you know someone who has lost a loved one, family member, or friend who bravely sacrificed their life in the face of battle, then thank them - give that widow or widower a hug, that mother or father a hand shake, that child or sibling a pat on the back - tell them that you recognize their loss and how much you are thankful and respect those who have made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom!

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